"Disassociating sex from emotion is a horrible idea. Actually, disassociating from your emotions in general is a horrible idea. That’s the kind of things victims end up doing to cope with trauma… Even when it’s “just sex,” emotion is still involved. It doesn’t need to be love. It doesn’t even need to be passion. Sometimes mild bemusement will get you where you need to go, but an emotional connection on some level is definitely something you want to have. The connection may not be intense and it may only last for a one night, but those emotions are still a valid and important component to the experience."
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Dear Coke Talk: On why it’s okay to feel your feelings.
Coke Talk has been giving out really solid advice lately. Advice on par with Sugar’s level of feeling-based advice, but with a snarkier voice.
I bet if she reads this she’ll hate me.
Sorry Coke Talk, I’m stoned. :/
(via dearcoquette)
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Coke Talk: On why...feelings. Coke Talk has been giving out really solid advice lately....
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Yes, yes, yes. This is all I’m ever trying to say (& I’m asked questions like this more often than I can count.) Sex is...
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